Be yourself
In most cases, there are only a few seconds to finalize the deal. A wrong word or a catastrophic geek can easily stifle this atmosphere. However, if he likes you, what you say or do will not make him lose interest in you. You are either with him or not with him. Another crazy reality is that most people won’t fall into people whom they are not attracted to in the first place on free dating apps, no matter who you are, no matter what you look like, no matter how sleek or clumsy your personality is. You may need to do lots of efforts to make him like you and there is huge possibility that you won’t succeed. Therefore, you might as well be yourself, because that is the best version of you.
No expectations
Expectations should not be confused with confidence. Expectation is the hope and often leads to disappointment on a casual hookup. Your expectations for the date may be a fiasco. Our imagination is wonderful, but when we start creating scenes before things happen, it will bother us. You are not a fortune teller, nor can you predict how things will develop, so why should you build it up beforehand?
Have fun
Keep this in mind: You are here to have fun, not to invite him to be your guest. Even if you think this man is the best, only in the future can you know whether the relationship is desire or love.
Ask about his sexual history
Hey, can you give the key to your car to a stranger and tell him how to use it, as long as he takes it back when he no longer use it? Not a chance! If something goes wrong, at least you can buy another car, but if you catch a STD, there is no good way to cure it form the root. Bring a condom and see if he also has it. Condom is a must no matter for preventing unplanned pregnancy or sexual transmitted diseases.
Don’t be ashamed of it
There is nothing to be ashamed of. You know what you like, and you know well enough about your body and self to keep it safe and still have fun. Learn from experiences. See if this is the right thing for you. Shame and guilt will only distract you. Use this time and experience to get to know yourself, what you like and what you don't like. No explanation or justification is required. First protect yourself, and then enjoy yourself.